How to Escape the Rat Race and Reconnect with Your True Self

Get the blueprint of how I shifted from feeling numb and overwhelmed to prioritizing my needs and finding inner peace

I did everything I was supposed to do. My life looked amazing from the outside, but on the inside, I was exhausted, overworked, and overwhelmed.

Hey lovely, I am Jessica.

I started out probably right where you are: stuck in the daily grind, ignoring myself, knowing something was off, just not knowing exactly what it was. 

I was working endless hours as an engineer in corporate America, failing at balancing work and motherhood, and taking care of everyone else's needs at the expense of myself.

I had been stuck in the grind, just going through the motions without purpose or fulfillment. Feeling like there were never enough hours in the day, and ignoring what was going on internally.

I didn't know who I was or what I wanted. I knew I needed change. I didn’t know exactly what that was, but I was open to trying anything.

I started with manifestation and the law of attraction, but it didn’t work. I immersed myself in all the teaching available. I even spent tens of thousands of dollars coaching with The Lisa Nichols from the famous book and movie The Secret.

And nothing seemed to work. I spent time and money on things that were not helping me because I wasn’t doing the foundational work required to reconnect to myself.

I learned how to build the foundation to create my own safe place, to be vulnerable, and to become more in tune with what’s going on inside and tap into those feelings.

It helped me choose myself, create clarity, and be willing to explore this worthy version of myself, which I now do with other women.

So why did my first attempts at escaping the rat race and reclaiming my worth fail?

Until, in 2017, I found out my unborn baby may not live.

At 17 weeks pregnant with my third child, I got the most tragic news: My unborn baby had cysts on the brain and kidney issues. I spent the majority of my pregnancy carrying a child that I did not know would live. 

But from all of these struggles, I discovered a process that works! I reclaimed my Self and now help other women do the same.

but let's be real.

Common Mistakes and Missteps

I made every mistake most women make in building their self-worth.

1. I spent time and money on things that didn’t work.
a. I would pay for retreats, coaching programs, and webinars. Yet, nothing seemed to work. I didn’t know where to start or what to do, so I tried to do it all. This caused me to spend thousands of dollars and time on unnecessary things.

2. I tried to force myself to use other people’s strategies unsuccessfully.
a. I looked to teachers, gurus, or coaches who didn’t understand me to tell me the “right” way, waiting for someone else to tell me I did it right. Honestly, no one had the right way. So, I stopped making things difficult and created a proven process for myself - a busy, overworked mom on a spiritual journey living out her dreams. Now, women all over the world use my process.

3. I didn’t know how to get the results I wanted.
a. I went to all the books, coaches, and fancy teachings I could without the desired results. But I didn’t know what I wanted. No one had ever asked me, “What do you want?” I knew what others wanted for me and what I was supposed to want, but none of that led to what I wanted. This caused me to waste thousands of dollars and hours without impacting my life.

4. I kept searching for something or someone to solve my problems, but it always felt out of reach. 
a. I was trying to maintain a false sense of positivity while ignoring my internal struggles. I spent hours convincing myself that if I focused on “positive” thoughts and feelings, everything in my life would miraculously heal. When I realized that didn’t work, I became more in tune with the worthy version of myself, created more alone time, and discovered my happiness.

Now, my clients can't stop talking about how powerful it is to embrace their true selves.

but let's be real.

Client Testimonials

“I learned how to embrace all of me (all my emotions, thoughts, dreams, body), and that allowed me to know my true self and true worth!” - Rana S. Speaker, Business Strategist, and mom of 2

Look, all I ever wanted was to be loved for who I am, all that I am, flaws and all. And I never found a space, place, or program to hold all of me. So, I created one.

From Confusion to Clarity and Confidence in Just a Few Short Months

I abandoned the toxic positivity and started getting real about how I felt and what I wanted.
It was no longer about appeasing people outside of me; rather, it was about understanding how I felt and what I wanted inside of me.
I developed a process to reclaim myself and help other women discover their worthiest version. These results are possible for you too! 

Here’s what some of the incredible women I support say about working with me.

“I chose Jessica not only because she helped me to see the mental and spiritual blocks that I didn’t even realize I had, but more importantly, she was the only person who made me feel safe enough to reveal my darkest and deepest traumas.” - Kristina P., Fitness Instructor and mom of 2
“Her guidance made it possible for me to push through roadblocks I was facing and trust in my direction. I highly recommend speaking with Jessica anytime you’re facing confusion, feeling disconnected, or simply wanting confirmation from spirit.” - Marissa, Personal Coach and mom of 2
"Jessica is kind and comforting. She is also extremely caring and unconditionally welcoming. Her soothing energy helped me to open my pathways and left me with some clear/specific guidance toward self-love and inner growth.” - Sarah F., Corporate Employee and mom of 2

Kind Words

Proven Process for Lasting Change

Now, I have helped hundreds of women reclaim their self-worth.

The lasting way that works.

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— Jennifer, co-Founder, Tonic site shop

Does This Sound Like You?

You’re the busy mom who juggles everything and wants more out of life.

  • Working hard at your job and managing everything at home, you often feel unappreciated and unsupported.
  • After giving everything to everyone else, there’s nothing left for you at the end of the day.
  • You’ve done everything you should, yet something still feels missing. You push yourself to achieve more, are always in control, and are often labeled as Type A and overachiever.

                           That thing that’s missing is you.

You Criticize Yourself in Ways You Would Never Speak to Anyone Else
  • The negative self-talk about your body, work, parenting, and life.
  • You push down your feelings with every “I’m fine; I’m okay; I’m good,” hiding the hurt because you need to be strong. The unshed tears, pain, hurt, and sadness are masked by frustration, irritation, and anger.
  • You keep pushing through how you and your body feel, ignoring yourself.

I will teach you how to honor your true feelings so you no longer have to mask your feelings or your true self.

You Fear Disappointing Anyone Else, So You Disappoint Yourself Instead
  • You often put others' happiness before your own, believing their feelings are your responsibility.
  • You fear being too harsh on your kids or that the next argument with your partner could be the last.
  • Deep down, you know this life isn’t what you expected, but you suppress your true feelings out of fear of change.

I can show you what’s needed to shift your relationships with your loved ones.

The Guilt is Stacked Miles High, Compounded with Shame
  • You feel guilty as a mom who wants to be with her kids but also as a career woman who wants to work.
  • You feel guilty when you do anything for yourself.
  • You have become short with your words; you are the one who has resentment in her heart from not feeling heard, understood, appreciated, or supported. You just want a break.

I will teach you how to heal anger and guilt so you can be more authentically you.  

You Desire More Out of Life
  • You want more time for yourself, your children, your career, and your life.
  • You keep searching for that thing that will finally make you feel fulfilled so you can finally take a break, rest, and be happy.
  • You desire to feel appreciated and supported at work and home for all you’ve done, so finally, you don’t have to push so hard.

                                                         Your desires are valid and not selfish. Let’s get clarity on what you want.

I am here to tell you that there is another way. Life can be different.

  • You have time for yourself and no longer feel alone and misunderstood.
  • You make decisions prioritizing your happiness and well-being, leading to a more fulfilling and authentic life.
  • You find a balance between work, family, and personal time, leading to a calmer, more focused, and satisfying daily routine.
  • You realize you’re not alone and never were and have proven tools to feel supported through the struggles.
  • You feel more deeply connected with your loved ones and, ultimately, your Self!
  • You feel in tune with your feelings and can express them.
  • You have a proven step-by-step process that can guide you through challenging experiences like stress, guilt, boundaries, and self-criticism in minutes a day.
  • Sharing emotions makes you feel more authentic and valued, boosting your self-worth and confidence.
  • You wake up daily with a clearer sense of what you want, not what others expect.
  • You find time for what you love, pursue personal interests, and make choices that reflect your true desires rather than constantly.

Imagine This:

Leave behind the chaos of daily life and embrace a serene, purpose-driven existence.

Introducing The Spiritual Seeker Mentorship

+ Course 1: Reconnect to Your Self

+ Course 2: Elevate Your Intuition

+ Spiritual Support On The Go

+ Live Monthly Call

Unlock Inner Peace and Authenticity with The Spiritual Seeker Mentorship

In This Mentorship, You Will Get:

Understand the symptoms of disconnection from your true self and discover powerful strategies and tools to reconnect. By aligning with your authentic self, you can start living a happier, more fulfilling life.

Clear your mental clutter, make confident decisions, and navigate challenges calmly and clearly. Cultivate inner peace, clarify your vision, and embrace your authentic self.

Gain exclusive access to a library of transformative resources, including workbooks, meditations, and spiritual exercises. These tools will guide you through the demands of daily life, ensuring you never wonder what to do next.

Join our monthly call to reclaim your self-worth and explore practical steps to reconnect with your true self. Identify and overcome common pitfalls, and create a safe space for vulnerability and self-reflection. Clarify your desires, tune into your inner feelings, and be part of a supportive community with women on a similar journey.

+ Bonus Content

Special guidance for busy moms to navigate burnout and everyday challenges.


Who is this mentorship for

  • Busy Moms: Women who juggle multiple responsibilities, including work, family, and personal life, often feeling unappreciated and unsupported.
  • Women Feeling Overwhelmed: Those who are stressed, overworked, and feel like they are on the verge of burnout, despite outward appearances of success.
  • Women Seeking More: Individuals who feel something is missing in their lives and desire a deeper sense of fulfillment and inner peace.
  • Self-Critical Individuals: Women who engage in negative self-talk, push down their true feelings, and prioritize others' happiness over their own.
  • Individuals Seeking Clarity and Confidence: Women ready to stop trying quick fixes and willing to do the foundational work to reconnect with their true selves and embrace their self-worth.

Who this course is not for

  • People Looking for a Quick Fix: This mentorship is not for individuals who want immediate results without putting in the effort. The process requires commitment, self-reflection, and consistent practice.
  • Those Unwilling to Do the Work: If you are unwilling to engage in the necessary foundational work to reconnect with yourself and reclaim your self-worth, this mentorship is not for you.
  • Those Not Ready for Real Change: If you are not ready to face and address your internal struggles and emotional blocks and prefer to continue with the status quo, this mentorship may not meet your needs.

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— Jennifer, co-Founder, Tonic site shop

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